Anaïs and Pascal, in a relationship for 14 years: “We loved at least four times a day”

Anaïs met Pascal when she was 25. He was 36 at the time. Fourteen years later, the couple is still spinning the perfect love. But if their age difference has never been an issue in terms of their personalities, their desires and their tastes, it starts to take place sexually.

“I always wanted him”

Anaïs has always loved nature and long walks. A passion that she shares with Pascal, and which played an important role when they met: “I have often had trouble finding a partner who is excited to take a week in the country just to walk, take pictures or enjoy the countryside. When Pascal told me about the hikes he had already taken, I was immediately won over. Pascal admits not having thought about their age difference in the beginning of their relationship: “I had a couple of friends who told me I was lucky, but I never understood why. To me, Anaïs is a woman, not a nymph. And what I like about her is our current commonalities, not the fact that she reminds me of my youth. I never felt like I was in a relationship with a child. »

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The beginning of their story is passionate: “I have always wanted him and it was mutual. We loved everywhere, all the time, even ten minutes. The goal was not always quality, but above all to feel the other person’s body. There was a sense of urgency.I think because we were relieved to have met each other after our share of bad stories.Pascal shares this analysis: “When I met Anaïs, I was relieved. I started telling myself that I was not created to be in a relationship, that I would never find someone who suited me. With her, everything was simple and very fast. I can say, without lying, that we loved at least four times a day in the beginning. As soon as we could have fun, we did. And then it calmed down around the first anniversary of our history. »

“I sometimes have breakdowns during sex”

Things have actually changed a lot: “We are slower in our approach. I want to take advantage of him when he is at his peak and he thinks the same way. There is no question of jumping on each other without being sure that have time ahead of us and be totally available for sex, physically and mentally.We must love once every two weeks or so.Pascal clarifies: “My age and my physical shape became elements to be taken into account. I no longer have one hard-on like I was when I was 20, even though I still want her that much.I sometimes have blackouts during sex if I’m too tired or even not hard at all in the worst stressful times.I have not been to doctor for it because I know it’s life and we do not really suffer from it. We do qualitative rather than quantitative sex and it suits us very well. ”

However, Pascal regrets: “Of course I would like to have the abilities of a sexuality of twenty years. At that time I did not even enjoy it so much. Sometimes I get depressed and tell myself that I would have liked to have met Anaïs earlier in my life , and then I realize that she too would have been younger and that it certainly would not have stuck. We met when we were supposed to meet. Anaïs is aware of this development in their history: “We have never behaved like about the age difference between us did not exist.It is normal that there are consequences.We both know that I will see him grow old before he sees me grow old, that he will definitely have health problems before me.Our desire has not developed “It’s our bodies that change. It’s also part of love to grow old together, and that’s fine with me.”

“My next ten sexual years, I want them with her”

Despite the signs of aging that are beginning to be felt, Anaïs is happy in her relationship and happy with her sex life with Pascal: “Of course I am happy! I’m in a relationship with a man I love and who makes me come like no other. We have a good life together. And I like what we built. I love that man, with that age and that life experience. I never thought I would be happier with a man my age. I’m happy for him. Pascal says he is also happy: “When I’m frustrated, it’s against me, against my body that does not follow my mind. But I also know it’s getting worse with age. I also know I have a magnificent woman in front of me and who I love and desire like a madman.I know how lucky I am to have her in my life.So I am fulfilled.Because even when I have a breakdown I can still give him joy.And that makes me the happiest of men. ”

In their next ten years, and the following, Anaïs admits that she has started researching: “I know sometimes he would like a hard-on, as hard as he wants me, but that his body does not follow with. Me, I want a sex life that satisfies both of us until the very end.So I started reading about non-penetrating sex and looking at sex toys.There are lots of ways to have fun together and I think we will look at exploring all that. Pascal is just as positive: “I like that we spend hours giving each other pleasure with our mouths and massaging each other. I like to penetrate her with my fingers, with toys.We are not bored.My next ten sexual years, I want to have them with her, to continue exploring together.We are constantly discovering new things and we have not lost anything, on the contrary.The bond is stronger than ever. »

The best sexual memory of Anaïs with Pascal:

“Before him, I had only known very selfish guys in bed, so the first time he took the time to do a long cunnilingus until orgasm, I was surprised. I remember at first feeling guilty about not coming fast, but he reassured me and I focused on the sensations. It was perfect, and it has remained so. »

Pascal’s best sexual memory with Anaïs:

“In the beginning of our relationship, it was crazy. We loved all the time and especially anytime. It took no more than a few seconds for me to get tough. We jumped on each other 20 minutes before friends came over for dinner. Then they rang the doorbell, I was breathless, but as happy as a child. ”

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